2023 is lurching to an end, and the world is once again possessed by that strange, end-of-year feeling. As we sit in the twilight of 2023, it’s near impossible not to reflect on the year we just survived, and the years we still need to weather. I can feel the weight of the year on my shoulders; I can still taste the anger and pain of the bad days; I can still grasp the warmth and joy of the good days; I’m still not totally sure if I’m using semi-colons correctly. But right now, when I sit and look back at this year, I feel proud. I feel energised, invigorated – more than I’ve felt in a hot minute (and take it from a biometeorologist, the minutes are only getting hotter each year). I don’t think this is necessarily normal, and it’s entirely possible I’ve lost my fragile mind, but if the price of happiness is insanity, I’ll pay it every time! So, indulge me, dear reader, and let me regale you with the tale of my journey through 2023…
I can still remember the day in January, when I showed my parents my first SAYAS blog. I can still remember how excited I was to see people’s reactions, to see people following me on Twitter (it’s called X now, but I’m loath to call it that), and to have a creative outlet where I could write all the weird things I want to write. Our poor editor has had her hands full trying to streamline all of my verbose nonsense, and her guidance has been of immeasurable value. Writing these blogs has been a highlight of my year, because I am without a doubt, my own biggest fan. I cannot even begin to describe how fun it was to make the vlogs! I don’t know why SAYAS let me make half the things I made, but I will be forever grateful for the opportunity.
Aside from SAYAS, this year was defined by non-stop academic triumph! And a lot of burn out and imposter syndrome, but mostly academic triumph! I don’t think I’ve told you yet, dear reader, but I recently submitted my dissertation for examination! I have spent the last few days celebrating with everyone I love most – revelling, rejoicing, basking, and, yes, even exulting a time or two. It has been a wonderful couple of days, dear reader. I started the year knee deep in data collection for my research. There is such a joy to conducting research, learning new things, and contributing to the creation of knowledge – and one of the most exciting parts of that process for me was collecting data through interviews. Starting to see patterns emerging in the data, and actually starting to form answers for the questions you’ve been asking is immensely rewarding. Taking all of the data I collected, analysing it, and pulling it all together into a cohesive argument was both challenging and electrifying. Knowing that you’re approaching the end of your dissertation – getting that much closer to the end of your degree – is a feeling like nothing else. I felt genuinely emotional when I looked at my complete dissertation, gripped by a sense of disbelief. There were so many days where I thought I was a failure, that I would never complete my degree, that I was wasting everyone’s time. Reading through my work, thinking about all the effort behind it, made me feel strong. It made me feel confident. It seems silly to have doubted myself so much, to have had such little faith in myself.
This year reminded me that I don’t suck as much as I think I do. The year reminded me that I shouldn’t give into malaise and stagnation, that it’s important to feel passionate, and excited about the things you’re doing. 2023 reminded me that I need to trust myself more, that I can be the person I want to be as long as I am willing to put in the effort. This year was a hard year. This year was a good year. I don’t know what the next year will bring, but I know I’m going to get through it. It has been a great privilege to share my writing with you, dear reader. I’m going to miss you, but I’m sure we’ll meet again… Until next time, thank you.